Anonymous asked: Omg, that really makes sense. I think he did feel pity but I don't know what goes through his mind every second. I guess, I'll never know..oh yeah. he gave me his number today, in person. he said "i know we just started talking but can we catch up?" then he gave me his number then he asked for mines. I guess he felt pity too that time.

Just wait and see if he will talk to you first. If he does then there is he chance he feels something for you. If not, then evidently he did feel pity for you

Anonymous asked: There was this guy I've been liking. anyways, we had a thing but it was over cause he started to ignore me in the beginning 9th grade year till one day he made me cry. somebody told him I cried, then he came up to me. I was shocked that he came up to me, he said "I feel bad for ignoring you, I really missed you, and I'm sorry for making you cry." we only had a 10 minute conversation because it was during passing period. He hugged me, touched my face and hugged me some more. I was really happy but confused on why he had finally made the move to say sorry, after all this time. I don't know what to do, should I message him on myspace for his number so I can speak to him more? or should I wait till he makes the move? I don't know what to do..

Genuinely I think he first came to you because he felt pity. I don’t want to sound rude but that’s what the situation looks like from another perspective. You should DEFINITELY wait for him to make the next move so you don’t look obsessed/stupid. You don’t want to look like a fool girl ..

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Anonymous asked: I dont think i believe in love anymore. I feel like its a one sided relationship where i give more than i receive. My boyfriend hasnt told me he loves me or anything else. I feel like i appreciate him more than he appreciates me. I no longer feel loved or know whats its like to beloved. I dnt know what to do. I just want him to tell me it'll be ok or hes here or something. Just reassure me! :( i cant take it anymore. What can i do??

Have you tried to converse with him about it? If you’re hurting he needs to know how you’re truly feeling or else he’ll never really know .. And if that doesn’t work and he doesn’t begin to treat you with the love and compassion you deserve then he’s not worth your love and time. Instead of wasting your love for someone who doesn’t appreciate it, give it to someone you won’t take you for granted and treat you with the lovin you deserve!

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Anonymous asked: Hello there! Well, I am currently in like with someone and it has been approximately three months I have been liking him. He has felt the same way, at one point, but sadly, the feeling has faded away for him. We are both distancing and our conversations are no longer the same. We seem to be having awkward silences and it just seems like we're trying too hard to keep our conversations going. It depresses me to see us like this. I've told him how I felt and he feels the same way, I guess.

What should I do?

Well if he’s feeling the same way then I don’t see what the dilemma is about? Perhaps you two should begin to hang out on a basis so you two can get the feeling back to the way it used to be. If you two don’t feel the connection like before, then maybe you two are just better of as friends. Other than that, I hope you two find your way back to each other!

Anonymous asked: For a while now, I've been feeling nothing but pure emptiness. I forget why I feel the need to live. I'm not saying I want to kill myself, I have no guts to do it. But I have no talent. I don't think or feel I have anything to live for. No excitement. None. Just a life full of crap and a lot more waiting to happen. School, home, sleep. Dailty routine. And trust, I've tried to do what I can by joining after school activities and endulging myself in other such, bit it doesn't help. I'm no good at amything.

Have you by any chance looked for a significant other who can help fulfill your needs? Having someone you care for can help give you the love and excitement your possibly longing for. And plus, everyone is good at something, you just haven’t attained it yet. Give it some time, go out and search for something. You might not be having any fun with your life because you always think whatever you do is boring, but if you bring in the fun then 100% will have fun no matter what you’re doing.

Anonymous asked: for the self esteem thing, its easy to say it like that but its difficult to actually do

Everything is easier said than done, but you just have to practice not listening to the negative thoughts others say about you. Throughout your life there will be many people saying rude comments about you, and the best thing to do is block what they have to say out of your life, if you practice that at a young age, you will become pro. Practice makes perfect, correct?

Anonymous asked: What do u do if uve been together with ur boyfriend for like nearly a year and he hasnt told u anything about his feeling apart from that ur amazing.?? Do u waot fr an i love u back?? Or jst completely end d relatipnship for te fear that he might nt ever feel the same nd obviously it'll hurt u more..

Help?!

I’m sorry, but I couldn’t really understand your question. Is he saying that it’s been a year and he hasn’t told you that he loves you and you might want to end the relationship if he doesn’t express his feelings?

Anonymous asked: im in high school and i have super low esteem. everything i do, i'm scared thered be someone who would judge me negatively. im constantly beating myself up about it. what should i do?

The first thing you should do is LOVE yourself no matter what. Everyone is filled with flaws and mostly people love to judge others because they are either jealous of you or their afraid of others making fun of them. Just keep your head up, don’t listen to what others have to say because they’re probably in the same situation as you. Don’t be afraid of what others have to say, you are your own person and no other opinion matters but your own